The simplest means to solve an argument to put yourself in their shoes, they are not going to let you win no matter what. So the thing to remember is you cant win.
What to do:
Accept the fact that it doesn't matter if you are wrong or right. They don't have the capacity to see your side so why bother. Just switch off and nod now and again. BUT if they change to laughter, you had better have your happy face ready.
It all boils down to they just want someone to listen, and not talk.
If you are bored with the droning on and on, change the subject by a brief interruption of something she is passionate about and when she is running her mouth more cheerfully, switch off again.
Remember an argument is only an argument if you participate. So DON'T.
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