I have found that at the end of the year, it is a celebration that not only have they taken you to the cleaners for one whole year, but now they are going to rub your nose in it good and proper.
All the presents they buy and all the food they have to cook, is a message to all.
Imagine being on your own on Christmas. All you have to do is think clearly about where it is you would want to be, and Bob's Ur Uncle. You could be there if your desire was great enough. Obviously, you have to want it to achieve it.
You have to man up in a situation like Christmas. Let them do their thing and pretend you are enjoying it. Bearing in mind that you are aware of what is going on, and are going to watch your back in the new year.
A relationship is like a game of chess. You have to stay a few moves ahead, and you have to be able to read the opposition moves ahead of time, so, stay alert. A woman wants a man who can see ahead, plans for uncertain events and is security conscious.
At the end of the day a woman wants a man who allows her to perform her motherly duties without interruption. You may complain afterward, but not during the process.
This is a time to step back and allow things to happen regardless. You may take the reigns back as soon as this is all over.
Not before. Play your part , it is for the little people.
