Defining Love

The way we think about love and our perception of what it is meant to be.
When the other half goes and does some things for you subconsciously, as do we all, it is an act of love. No extra effort is made, it just flows naturally. Even when you do go out of your way, it is still just for the love of yourself. Will this make my lover happy?
.. Actually, it in fact is about you making yourself happy because it would please you, to see them happy. So basically. .. It would please you to please them.